Friday, November 21, 2008

Gone but not forgotten

Before moving to Japan, Travis and I discussed the many difficulties we could experience while living several thousand miles from home. We didn't, however, know how challenging they would truly be. Last Saturday, we received a phone call we'd been dreading. Although it was somewhat expected, it was far from desired. We were told that Travis' grandfather had passed away. We immediately began making travel arrangements to head home to be with his family.

Although our trip was clouded with sadness, it was wonderful and refreshing to be with family and friends while saying goodbye to his grandpa. Rather than reflect on the impending sadness and the sorrow that always accompanies the death of a loved one, we focused on the good times and celebrated the life of one who taught so many so much. 

Travis' grandpa was a wonderful man and always remained positive despite circumstances. He encouraged his family and always put others before himself. I am so blessed to have been able to know him and learned so much from him. Although his body failed him physically, his love remained strong. His kind heart and good-spirited nature remained steadfast, even until the end.
Leland Frederick Hartman
1927-2008

We already miss him, but we will see him again in paradise.

5 comments:

Allison said...

Roman and I are sorry to hear the sad news. It's really hard to hear the news that a loved one passed away. We're really looking forward to Thanksgiving on Sunday. Can't wait to see you there.

Unknown said...

Jess - so sorry to hear about Travis' grandpa. Mike and I are sending big hugs and lots of prayers your way. Miss you, friend!

Anonymous said...

I know it must be hard to get that news from the other side of the world, but I'm glad you guys were able to be home for the send-off. We're thinking of you both and hoping you can meet Carolina on your next trip to the homeland.

JessHart27 said...

Thanks for your support. I'm so fortunate to have such great friends.

Unknown said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. You, Travis and your family are in my thoughts.